Sometimes we believe in certain people.. have expectations from them...
G says we should not expect.. but we are human.. and expectations and human go together..
There are so many complications in life.. and most of it is because of these expectations..
Be it professional .. be it personal.. these always have some value.. Its a different topic if we are able to meet other's expectation or not..
We might not be raising upto that level.. and when we dont and see the pain in our loved ones... we feel guilty... and not go and advise.. dont have any expecations from me.. or nobody has ever had any expectation from me.. These are words of escapism...
When in a relationship.. be it parent child, brother sister, husband wife.. even in friendship.. we need to know that a little bit of affection is always expected... You need to be confident that when the whole world leaves me alone... my friend is always there for me...That is what is friendship after all... The confidence in the other person, the trust which you have on that person irrespective of whether the person will really do it for you.
What if there comes a situation you are no longer going to trust your friend... the friendship is off on a vacation.. probably that is the day, you realize, you did a mistake...
They say.. parents are by chance
frineds are by choice
So choose your friends wisely... Choose your life wisely!!!
10 comments:
Hey Arthi ur right...what is relationship without expectations....but I guess its always better to maintain relationships without having much expectations...BTW is anything wrong...? When are u cmg to Bengaluru and has Smyta's stopped blogging? TC
Hmmmm..I wonder wats prompted this now??? have been a silent reader till date...But u know how this would ensure that I cannot keep quiet ;)
My 2 cents would be that expect from the other only what u would be prepared to do for them...
Anon, Thanks for the comment.. can u leave ur name too.. Nothing is wrong... just that these feelings crop up in mind...Smyta now blogs in http://smione.wordpress.com/
Divya,
Well sometimes even little things can prompt such feelings or it can be really big....
Well its very easy to define what to expect from whom etc.. but very difficult to follow.
Hey Arthi this is Praveen (Anon)..have been reading ur blog for a long time...hey are u from New Horizon, Bangalore? And thanks for letting mew knw abt Smyta's new link...I thought she quit blogging...
BTW are u on orkut?
yes.. expectation do come within itself!.. although we choose our friends by choice..! things do and will happen wrong.. since we are not perfect. Rather it should be like you choose wisely and things went worng then better study yourself about the fault and not repeat!.. Also say we did wrong so can we come back?..
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