Sunday, October 02, 2005

aaagh!!!!

I am so damn frustrated!!!

Whats wrong if i expect something???
Dont I deserve to the answers for my questions??

Is it wrong if i expect people to answer to my questions!!!
And now i dont know if i need to honest with friends...
I mean if I am angry with them... am i supposed to just be quiet and go on... or let them know - hey u have hurt me...

Well as of now I am so angry... At myself or at someone else.. Dunno...

But yes i just wanted to put out my feelings.. And what better place than my own blog....

22 comments:

mitu said...

hey art...

just relax... i know you must be damm frustrated and angry...

it always happens when you express your feelings smoothly thinking that the other person/frnd will understand... but that doesnt happen and inturn we feel angry and frustrated....

but there is nothing we can do about it... yes we can atleast try not to spoil our mood..thats easier said than done...

if you say to a frnd - "hey you have hurt me"... s/he can take it in two ways.... they can either feel guilty and try to change themselves so that they wont hurt you again... and this might create some sort of gap/drift between you people... or s/he can take it in a positive way and discuss with you about your feelings and why did it hurt... and this often strengthens the bond of frndship...

so... just chill.... take care... pamper yourself...

happy monday morning.... i know monday mornings are terrible... i hate monday morning.... :)

Seema said...

Hey!! Guess u r feeling better now. This happens with most of us. I don' feel angry or frustrated as such, but yes, at times I'd wanna have some time off for myself. Esp on those days when work hasn't been good at office. And that is when all my frenz have loads of stuff to tell me about. And I never have the heart to say, "Can I get some time for myself plz?"

Unknown said...

i believe that friends deserve to know if you are angry with them. let them know. by not letting them know you're only increasing the gap. this is just my opinion. but depending on your friends, you might also want to take some time on your own and things that please you most. and everything will be back in place in no time! cheer up :)

Soumya said...

it is totally correct to expect ppl to answer ur questions ... but it shud be by their free will ...

friendship without honesty ... unimaginable for me ...
infact all relationships ...

if u dont want the hurt to be repeated u must surely tell the other one ... other thing is not to feel hurt by friends ...

Krish said...

ok..take care Art...

ahaan said...

Whats wrong if i expect something???
I dont think there's anything wrong with expecting but then things dont alway go as u want them to ........

And now i dont know if i need to honest with friends...>
Cmon if u cant be honest with ur friends than probably they r not ur friends .....And please friends r the only ones whom we can say frankly that "u have hurt me"..So dont just keep ur feelings with urself...
This has happened with me also .Somethings were not working for me with my friend.and i talked with him and everything worked fine....

So go and tell them .....
Bye .Take care :o)

Tarun said...

Just chill chill just chill...BTw what are the questions...le me try

Woodooz said...

They are friends because we have the liberty to pour our heart out... If you are hurt, then it makes all the more sense to tell them. After all, hiding something might be contrary to the true definition of friends :o)

Hope you are back to normal !

Kroopa Shah (Kr00pz) said...

Tell them, if you are really good friends with them then they should know.

Jolly friend seeker said...

Hey art,

Cool down mam. I know you are very frustrated, but you should realize people have their own problems to deal with. We see the world with our own perspective failing to realize that even we are not the same the next minute. I guess you should tkae an objective view of things and talk to your friends again. I am sure they will repond the next time.

I feel that frustration is totally within our control depending on how we chose to "respond" to the situation and not "react".

Well you seem to be in need of a person who can listen to all your views and at least respond to you.

I have also seen other posts of yours and you have pired your heart out in these. If you want a person who willlisten and respond without being judgemental, please do visit my blog at http://friendseeker.blogspot.com/

Well i have to admit i am very new to this blogging thing, seeking a fewq tips from friend seekers like you.

Have a good day, every day!!!

Akshay said...

OMG!!! That was scary lady :O

Neha said...

hmmmm..."Expectations bring disappointments.."..but still u have a right to expect from ur friends to at least try to understand u..friendships are all nice and warm in the good times but the real test of friendships comes when the times are not so good...and yes,honesty goes hand in hand with friendships..hope u lighten up soon...

ESIH said...

Calm down..things will all turn out just fine..and well we all do expect things tht sometimes dont get answered..thts life..so just sit tight and cool down...

~*. D E E P A .* ~ said...

was on a 5 day leave n resolved to hibernate ... am back now .. will update today

~*. D E E P A .* ~ said...

u know .... i no longer talk to 2 of my so called close friends coz they hurt me too much n my prode wouldnt let me tell them that n my ego wouldnt let me continue my friendship .....

Gangadhar said...

Well Arathi..just stay cool..That's only I can say!
And take care..

Prakash said...

Hi
true...whenever i feel down or wants to rant about sonething...BLOG is the one...bcos it can only listen with out talking back...
Prakash

Neel Arurkar said...

Full frustu. Cool down Art( i know that has been repeated many times in the comments section..but still..)

Art said...

Thanks all for the concern. And yes i am totally fine(not just now, but after a few mins i wrote the post)

But i was so frustrated that i wanted to vent out my feelings...

And was replying to u guys and was half done... but by mistake opened another comments pop up and lost mine :( so have to reply once again.. will do it shortly

Art said...

Welcome to Neha,jolly friend seeker,soumya

Soumya said...

thanks :-)

Anonymous said...

Excellent, love it!
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