Friday, September 16, 2005

Jaana tha Japan...Pahunch gaye Cheen!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

wow!!! So many friends are getting married. I am so happy for them... but till July... nothing happ... and now that i am so far off... they all r getting married....

Its been more than 2 years since we have left college... and havent met quite a few since then... only contact is thru... phones...mails...chats....

Few people there is no contact....not that we spoke to all in class that much...
and now... someday i hear my friends say... my parents are looking for a guy.... he is this he is that... i dont want to marry such a guy...

Other friend says... hey talk to him properly and then decide...its ur life's decision afterall... Then once the marraige is fixed (this happens after months later with some other guy)... We finally bombard the girl with questions... How is he??? y did u like him??? what was special in him??? and then ofcourse we tease her...

Well i am doing the same with another friend of mine too... he is a guy, but as of now only his close friends know abt his marraige getting fixed... (me being one of the closest friend)... So obv... my opinion counts(hehe... naah... )...but he did want to know abt his selection... So me mailing that girl... Being friends with her too.. :D

So lots of such stuff going on.... Well whenever i come to know one of my friends are getting married... I get so excited... Never realized when we grew so much...when we matured to take up so much of responsibility...

Noooooooooooooo I dont want to be mature!!! I still want the warmth of my mom, where she says... U r still a kid.... Oh Loved those days... Nowadays I tell my parents... Be careful... Dont strain ur self... I am there for u.. Oh!!! then i feel have i become so mature enough to now tell them things... and then i come back to my stupid self...talking junk... my mom just laughs of n says... "Love u, u r still a Kid" .... Aaaah i just love it when she says this.... Ma... I am still ur innocent Kid...and will always be...
Hmm...wish i could never grow up :D :D

PS: I know its strange...my title and post dont match... thats coz i started with one topic and ended elsewhere..

13 comments:

Raju PP said...

haha... good good ;) atleast u reached cheen ;) didnt stuck in the middle of the ocean :D
well, there needs to be a balance in being kiddish n matured fella... many of my frz always see my kiddish side, coz i show them only tat, but few close ones know my matured side as well... i dont regret tat as well, coz i know the importance of being matured as well... just need to strike the right balance at the right time :)

and yeah, i havent had the opp to attend the wedding of any of my friends as of yet, so cant comment much on the feelings part :p

Vivhyd said...

Nice write up Arathi.. its strange indeed.. we grow up so fast.. So many responsibilities and just yesterday it was like oh we r in college etc.. all the best to ur friends.. couple of mine are getting married 2 this yr.. one which I may attend this Dec in India.. :)

Woodooz said...

Lol ! Am sure that would be lots of fun ! I have done with just one friend of mine. Not that he wanted to know about his selection... Just that he wanted me friends with her !!!

Incidentally he got married yesterday :o)

Good one art !

Harshit said...

Looking to London and talking to Tokyo:-)

ahaan said...

Haha.thank GOD u mentioned at last that the title and post do not match ..cuz throughout the post i was looking for something like moving from japan to cheen :D

Anyways i really like the part when u say ur mom to take care and then she
says u r still a kid ...

i guess all of us want to be kids,with our parents around us telling at each and every step ...

All in all nice post...
Ahaan

codeextracts said...

Ahan!

A picture of what's gonna come in next 4-5 years for us as I'm in my final year right now. :D

Nice post Arathi :)

How's work coming along?

codeextracts said...

Ahan!

A picture of what's gonna come in next 4-5 years for us as I'm in my final year right now. :D

Nice post Arathi :)

How's work coming along?

Art said...

Raj,
Maturity is something all of us gain as life goes on... We just need to make sure that we dont lose our innocense during this course....

Vivhyd,
Enjoy ur friend's marraige... Never know when u gonna attend another friend's marriage...

Wow!!! U must have surely enjoyed ur friend's wedding :)

Harshit,
:)

Ahaan,
Welcome to the blog... And yes... just love it when mom pampers me... :)

Fictional Reality,
Well 4-5 years... naah... u will start missing ur student life, as soon as u step out of it...

AmitKen said...

Grow up KID.

hahah.. just kidding ;-))

~*. D E E P A .* ~ said...

hmmm ... i know that one too ... ' marriage ' always seems to be lurking in the air .. and by my attitude ,feel like the black sheep of the family

Neel Arurkar said...

Damn! People are getting married everywhere. People in my project team, friends ...every1..every1 :-)

Art said...

Amitken,
:) :)

Deepa,
hmm....well...marraige will anyway happen someday..so y think abt it now :)

Neel,
Ya... everyone..and i am missing all of it...

Visithra said...

awww so cute :)